Frost Advisory #348 – Rose Are Red, Violets Are Blue: A Programming Lesson From Valentine’s Day

We can all remember the first time someone said, “I love you.”  (We can also painfully remember each time someone didn’t).

We are created to be known.  From the early playground experiences of “mommy, mommy, look at me,” to the moment you discovered the pretty girl knew your name.

“To be loved but not known is comforting but superficial.  To be known and not loved is our greatest fear.  But to be fully known and truly loved is, well, a lot like being loved by God.  It is what we need more than anything.”
~Timothy Keller

Being known means we’re valued, seen as special.  Being known validates who were are, that we have worth.

Hallmark knows this.

You're Awesome!

Valentine’s Day cards are even grouped into “known” sections labeled “For my husband,” “For my wife,” “For my daughter… son…”

When we can get past the radio stuff perhaps we’ll discover that our format, at the highest “self-transcendence” level, is about being known.  Maybe people don’t tune to our format because of what we are, maybe they do because of who they are.

What if this Valentine’s Day programming lesson taught us that… instead of focusing on all the radio stuff listeners don’t really care about, we focused on affirming our listeners in the most important aspects of their lives.

Known for being a good mom.

Known for being a good kid.*

A good husband.  A good neighbor.  A good friend.

(*That’s what Family Name Game™ is all about).

“I’m pretty sure we never outgrow the need to be reassured, to be reminded we matter enough for someone to be there for us.  In fact, the older we get (the more we’ve been rejected, disappointed, abandoned and deserted), the more we long for someone, anyone, to do what they said they’d do, keep faith with us and honestly care about our well-being.

People remember when you catch them and when you don’t.”
~Mark Beeson

John Frost

About John Frost

John has been a successful major market DJ and PD for such companies as CBS, Gannett, Cap Cities, Westinghouse, Multimedia, and Sandusky and publishes the Frost Advisory.

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