“Men are respectable only as they respect.” ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson
No, not the Aretha song, the other r-e-s-p-e-c-t you’ve heard about so much.
Some friends and I were talking the other day about respect at work, and about how so many people seem to think it comes with a title or position. You can be a Director, a VP, a Chief or a CEO, but people don’t really respect the position, they respect the person. And their actions.
You earn respect by what you do , how you do it, and how you treat others. The only way you earn true respect is by showing respect to others first. Oh yeah, and when you’re promoted or go somewhere else, you have to earn that respect all over again. It’s not about your reputation, what you did at your last job, your resume or your new promotion.
As I’m fond of telling people, “You can’t save people from themselves. Some will always struggle with respect, thinking that others don’t give them enough of it. They’ll never be happy, because they never learned to give respect before getting it in return.
As the dictionary says, Respect: 1. a feeling of deep admiration for someone or something elicited by their abilities, qualities, or achievements.